Privacy check · checked 13 October 2026
What 46 AI girlfriend apps do with your data
Pulled from each app's own privacy policy and terms. Green means they promise something that's good for you, red means they say the opposite, grey means the policy is vague or doesn't mention it. Grey isn't automatically fine. Vague wording usually gives the company more room to move.
13
say they train their AI on your chats
26
don't mention it either way
5
say they don't, or only if you opt in
| App | Trains AI on chats | Ads / data sharing | Delete your data | Minimum age | Age check | Refunds | Balance |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
Anima AI Ichigoichie Tech Limited, USA (Delaware) | Not mentioned | Yes | By request | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | − 4/12 |
Aroused AI Company not named | Not mentioned | No | By request | 18+ | Just asks | Not mentioned | + 7/12 |
Blush AI Endura LLC | Not by partners | Yes | By request | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | − 4/12 |
Candy AI EverAI Ltd, Malta | Yes | No | By request | 18+ | Just asks | Not mentioned | · 6/12 |
Chai Chai Research Corp., USA | Yes | Yes | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | App store | − 5/12 |
Character.AI Character Technologies, Inc., USA | Yes | Not mentioned | In the app | 13+ | Age assurance | No refunds | − 5/12 |
Chub AI Company not named | No | No | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | + 8/12 |
CrushOn.AI Company not named | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | · 6/12 |
DarLink AI FameLink SA | Yes | No | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | Not mentioned | + 7/12 |
Dondi AI Dondi.ai Labs Inc. | Yes | No | By request | 18+ | May ask for ID | No refunds | − 5/12 |
Dream Companion Miracle AI UG (haftungsbeschränkt), Germany | Yes | Yes | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | Case by case | − 5/12 |
DreamGen Company not named, not stated (Swiss arbitration) | Only if you opt in | Not mentioned | By request | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | · 6/12 |
DreamGF DreamAI SRL, Romania | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | 18+ | Just asks | Discretionary | · 6/12 |
Eva AI Novi Limited, Cyprus | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | · 6/12 |
FantasyGF Advanced AI Labs SRL, Romania | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | Before next billing | + 7/12 |
GirlfriendGPT Company not named | Not mentioned | No | By request | 18+ | Just asks | Separate policy | + 7/12 |
HeraHaven Vilala Limited, Cyprus | Yes | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | 18+ | None | No refunds | − 3/12 |
HeyGF Y2A LLC, USA | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | − 5/12 |
Infatuated AI Company not named | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | − 5/12 |
Intimate Astarto Group Ltd | Not mentioned | Yes | By request | 18+ | Just asks | Within 7 days | − 5/12 |
Janitor AI JanitorAI | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | Not mentioned | + 7/12 |
Joi AI Novi Limited, Cyprus | Yes | Yes | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | Case by case | − 5/12 |
JuicyChat Cognify AI Ltd, Malta | Not mentioned | Yes | Not mentioned | 18+ | Just asks | Not mentioned | − 5/12 |
Kindroid Kindroid, USA (Los Angeles) | Not mentioned | No | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | + 7/12 |
Kupid AI SNB Tech | Not mentioned | No | By request | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | · 6/12 |
Lovescape Warmtech Ltd, Cyprus | Yes | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | − 4/12 |
Nastia Nastia Cybernetics, France | Not mentioned | Yes | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | − 5/12 |
Nectar AI Nectar AI, LLC, USA (Delaware) / UK | Not mentioned | No | In the app | 13+ | Just asks | No refunds | · 6/12 |
Nomi AI Glimpse.ai, Inc., USA (Maryland) | Yes | No | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | · 6/12 |
NovelAI Anlatan Inc., USA | Not mentioned | Yes | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | − 5/12 |
OurDream AI Dream Studio USA, Inc., USA | Not mentioned | Yes | In the app | 18+ | Sometimes | Not mentioned | · 6/12 |
Paradot Withfeeling.ai, Inc., USA | Not mentioned | No | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | + 7/12 |
Pi Inflection AI, Inc., USA | Yes | No | In the app | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Free | + 8/12 |
Polybuzz Company not named | With your consent | No | In the app | 18+ | UK only | No refunds | + 7/12 |
Promptchan AI VisionAI Labs Limited | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | 18+ | Just asks | Separate policy | · 6/12 |
Replika Luka, Inc., United States | Yes | Yes | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | − 4/12 |
Romantic AI Just Web It Oy, Finland | Yes | No | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | No refunds | · 6/12 |
Secrets AI Secret Labs Inc. | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | In the app | 18+ | Verifies | Separate policy | + 8/12 |
SoulFun Company not named | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | 13+ | None | No refunds | − 3/12 |
SpicyChat SpicyChat.AI, Canada | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | Separate policy | + 7/12 |
Sugarlab AI AI Labs B.V., Netherlands | Not mentioned | No | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | Yes (7 days, only if 200 tokens or fewer used) | + 8/12 |
Swipey AI INVAI Ltd | Not mentioned | No | By request | 18+ | Face scan, ID | No refunds | + 7/12 |
Talkie AI SUBSUP Pte. Ltd., Singapore | Not mentioned | Not mentioned | In the app | 14+ | Just asks | Not mentioned | · 6/12 |
Venice AI Venice.ai, United States (Wyoming) | No | Yes | By request | 13+ | Just asks | No refunds | − 4/12 |
xchar Always is Now Inc., USA (Nevada) | No | No | In the app | 18+ | Just asks | Not mentioned | + 9/12 |
xeve.ai Jay Web Development & Services, Germany | No | No | In the app | 18+ | ID when required | No refunds | + 8/12 |
Balance is green answers times two plus grey answers, out of 12. It's for scanning, not a safety score. Click a column header to sort. Every app page has the exact quotes and links. Something out of date? Email us.
What the columns mean
Trains AI on chats. We say yes when the policy says your messages or content get used to train or improve their models. That includes "anonymized" use, because an anonymized late-night chat that mentions your hometown and your dog's name isn't very anonymous.
Ads / data sharing. Yes when they share personal data with advertising partners, run targeted ads, or "sell" or "share" data in the US privacy-law sense. Some apps split it: Replika shares website data with ad partners but says your chats never go there. The app pages have those details.
Delete your data. "In the app" means there's a button. "By request" means emailing them or filling in a form. Works too, just slower.
Age check. "Just asks" means a checkbox or a birthday field. A handful use ID, a selfie or a face scan. New laws are pushing more apps that way, see new laws.
What we can't see. A privacy policy is a promise. We can't look at their servers. But a written promise is the thing you can hold them to, so that's what we collect.